How To Be A Neglectful Blogger In One Easy Step

by Eric Socia

  1. COMPLETELY forget that you even have a blog/website for a good long time, and then remember, and come back to it, and write a post about how neglectful you’ve been.
  2. (OK, so there are two steps) Apologize profusely

Wow. I’m soooo sorry to those of you who’ve stuck around and kept coming back, and to those of you who’ve continuously left comments on the past few posts, and even some on older posts. I’m terribly, terribly, ridiculously sorry. I simply have no excuse whatsoever. I bought a new Pocket PC phone with an incredibly addicting Sprint plan that includes unlimited texts, unlimited data, etc., and 500 anytime minutes, all for just 30 bucks a month. MY PHONE HAS BEEN EATING MY LIFE AWAY SINCE THEN.

It’s absolutely amazing how obsessed I get with things, thus leading me to forget about other things.

To try and explain:

My phone is an HTC Titan, dubbed by Sprint as the HTC Mogul. It’s, as I said, a Pocket PC loaded with Windows Mobile 6. It is the most amazing thing I’ve owned so far. I can do just about anything with it. Currently, I’m using it to read the Bible. Yes, the entire Bible. No, I don’t consider myself Christian. Although I’m starting to think it may be time to give Christianity another shot. But that’s completely besides the point. The point, my friends, is that I am a slave to technology. And when I get my hands on something new (like my new phone) I simply cannot put it down and keep up with the other things in my life. At least, not at first. But as you can see, I’ve realized my mistake, and here I am.

I promised in a previous post that I would be here more often, typing out new stuff for y’all to read. I am sorry that I didn’t keep that promise. This time, I promise to simply try harder. I’ve realized that’s about all I can do at this point. Try.

I’m also up for a promotion at work, and that’s been kind of stressing me out a little bit. Getting prepared for interviews and whatnot.

So. With that out of the way…

How’s everyone doing? Anything exciting happening or already happened that I’ve missed?

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155 Comments »

2008-01-08 00:10:34

Lol..Good post though and I am sure u will not neglect that u hav a reader for ur blog posts here after and continue posting..Thnx for the post

Comment by Make Money Blogging
2008-01-15 18:37:36

I’ve seen so many posts like these on so many blogs. If you want to show your lack of commitment do this. Well, I guess you had a good excuse in this case.

Keep up the good work,
Hafiz Dhanani

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2008-01-09 03:01:16

LOL…I think you need to be more consistent on the next future. I see your blog has already had a good alexa rank.

 
Comment by Make Money Online
2008-01-09 10:10:06

That’s hilarious.

When I got my iPhone I was the same way. So it’s understood!!!

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Comment by Tummy Tuck
2008-01-09 16:08:22

That is SO true! That’s what makes blogs so much fun and interesting. You don’t have to blog everyday, but may what you blog about have a hook or angle that people can relate to.

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Comment by nicusor
2008-01-11 04:25:24

At least you have an excuse… ;)

Cheers,
Nick

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Comment by El Yanqui
2008-01-11 07:01:38

Only two steps? At least you’re streamlined. :)

I’m hoping to get an iPhone to eat my time away.

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Comment by Bingo Online
2008-01-11 08:18:36

looz, don’t let the phone eat your life away! there’s plenty more things that you still haven’t accomplish..

cheers!

 
2008-01-11 18:25:15

Oh come on don’t be so hard on yourself. Who hasn’t stopped posting on their blog once in a while?

Comment by Handheld GPS unit
2008-01-29 09:51:38

People who don’t have subscribers? But that’s just a guess.

Comment by seo
2008-02-08 12:09:11

Yea, I heard that. It does get old writing when there’s no one reading your blog. I should know. I have one blog that gets good readership, but no one posts comments. My newest project is a forum. Maybe I’ll get more interaction with that.

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Comment by Liposuction Dallas
2008-01-11 21:30:06

I’ve been there more times than I can count. But get back on the horse and you start feeling so much better:)

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2008-01-11 21:49:41

That is one of the funniest posts I have read in a long time!

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Comment by Thevamp
2008-01-11 23:16:25

Nice post… Very funny

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Comment by Tao Las Vegas
2008-01-12 00:19:04

Very funny!

But even the best bloggers have to have some time off. That’s why they created the Guest Blogger!

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Comment by Crazys
2008-01-12 06:34:17

lmao…that was really an interesting one…im looking for more :P
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Comment by Richy
2008-01-13 00:17:37

Great post! Funny though & very informative in a way.

Richy

 
Comment by Tips & Tricks
2008-01-14 01:14:23

Nice post on how you can neglect writing. Keep up the good work, you have a nice blog hope you enjoy writing.

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Comment by SEO RI
2008-01-14 10:43:42

Is it wrong I haven’t updated my blog in 2 months? Ha!

 
Comment by apple pie recipe
2008-01-14 10:55:06

Its been a long morning.. Thanks for giving me something interesting to read.

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Comment by Jed
2008-01-14 15:57:17

I can totally understand stress. Good luck with the promotion and I am glad to hear you are back to blogging.

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2008-01-14 19:49:26

Stress is good and bad! I live off the rush of having to get something done as opposed to planning it out.

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2008-01-14 23:21:33

Its hard to update a blog everyday..especially when you buy a new toy.

 
Comment by sexy boots
2008-01-15 01:07:53

I truly agree with you dude..After I got a WII I seldom updated my blog

 
Comment by Mark Boucher
2008-01-16 07:48:34

Thanks for the Post.

 
Comment by Keira
2008-01-16 12:56:09

Seems like a lot of people went missing over Christmas :P
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Comment by Johnny
2008-01-16 15:28:32

First of all, I’d like to say I understand how you feel!
I think I’d started so many blogs and then gave up on them that even I can’t remember them. But I know how irezistable temptations can be. I already red 3 novels on my smart phone!
So, welcome to the club!

 
Comment by avant garde
2008-01-16 16:10:54

nice to have you back online :)

 
Comment by BloggerBible
2008-01-19 14:58:59

We too started many blogs without success but are slowing learning our lessons.

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Comment by Andrew
2008-01-20 04:10:22

Hahah that sounds what i do, and have been doing for a year. Yes i know its not the best thing to do. I post for 3 weeks and then have a month off. I think the 14 readers subscribed to my RSS have got use to my infrequent posting. These tips will definetely help me. I just have to stop being so lazy.

 
Comment by neil strauss
2008-01-21 17:33:28

Its not that long that you’ve been away!

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Comment by Valentine Day Gifts
2008-01-22 09:19:27

I have a couple of feeds in my reader that I have been meaning to get rid of. Too many, I haven’t bloged for so long because X comments. Thanks for the reminder.

 
2008-01-22 15:40:59

I’ve more than one blog. Some times it’s really confusing to controll all of them!

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Comment by Lazy Boy Furniture
2008-01-23 07:07:24

Seems you’re more worried about your new phone than the promotion you’re going for?!

Good luck with both.

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2008-01-23 08:45:45

Yeah, we all go through this problem. Life takes over sometimes. All we can do is get back on the horse and get going again.

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Comment by Nikki
2008-01-24 15:05:55

Great post! Thanks. :D

 
2008-01-25 14:19:44

It happens to the best of us unfortunately… sometimes I’ve forgotten to post for weeks at a time because I’m too busy with other projects.

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2008-01-25 22:41:02

I have a blog. I check it twice a day. It is very time consuming. So I can understand how you neglected your blog. I actually see my readership goes up and down every other day. Not sure what this really means.

 
2008-01-26 01:38:17

I love the wordpress feature that lets me cue up a bunch of posts and then they are only shown when the date I have specified occurs. Makes it look like I am blogging every day or every other day. Of course, if your blog is time sensitive, that may not work, but if it is not time sensitive, it works great.

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Comment by Cinin Kanda
2008-01-26 14:04:10

I also having the same problem. Having a lot of blogs doesn’t help either.

 
Comment by Weight Loss Wand
2008-01-26 15:52:43

Oh my god! You are so true Eric. A similar kind of thing happened with me too. I hope a pocket PC would help me too.

 
Comment by Romancy Pants
2008-01-30 21:21:36

I know what you mean. I got the somewhat older version of the mogul through cingular, the 8125. Those pc phones are amazing.

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Comment by Texan Democrat
2008-01-31 00:22:42

While I am mad at you… I understand lol
Happens to me…

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Comment by Bose Speakers
2008-01-31 18:23:42

Haha! Back when I was blogging, I think every post I did started out with an apology for not posting enough or at regular intervals. I can certainly relate to this post!

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2008-02-01 03:32:06

I really like your posted topic its well informative for your readers as well in your blog, i like your web design i find clean and well relevant to your posted topic. keep it up…

 
Comment by Pictures of Hawaii
2008-02-01 04:27:07

Congrats on possibly being up for a promo. I think a lot of bloggers go through the same ups and downs that you’ve been experiencing. It’s relative. Hang in there!

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Comment by Good Tips
2008-02-05 00:40:34

hahaha, I see this ALL the time, especially on personal blogs. you’re right, it’s much better to act like you never missed a beat.

 
Comment by Gaming Forums
2008-02-06 07:49:28

I’ve a few blogs. Some times it’s really confusing to controll all of them!

 
Comment by Tylamar
2008-02-07 10:58:54

Hey just writing to say I am a singer/songwriter and get very busy so I understand. I am trying now to be consistant with visiting and writing in my blog. I also wanted to say give Christianity another try! :)

Comment by Tylamar
2008-02-07 11:01:03

Hey just writing to say I am a singer/songwriter and get very busy so I understand. I am trying now to be consistant with visiting and writing in my blog. I also wanted to say give Christianity another try!:)

 
 
Comment by Toronto SEO Company
2008-02-08 01:07:55

I would not blame a bloggers those stop blogging for a while, I understand that they are like any of us having jobs to look after, family to take care of and they also need some time to have fun, the only situation that blogger must consistently blog is when he blogs to make live (professional blogger)

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2008-02-08 06:48:44

And what about a writer’s block? It’ll pass eventually. Believe me, I know ;-)

 
Comment by Naming Company
2008-02-09 13:08:01

I too went through this. And we coined a name for it - we call it a Schrodingers Blog. Is it alive? Is it dead? Who knows?

 
Comment by ActorsWebsiteDesign
2008-02-10 07:22:24

I go with the writers block…

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Comment by Holly
2008-02-11 01:07:33

I’ve seen a lot of bloggers do this not once, but several times in a few months’ period. It’s annoying, makes you lose subscribers and any viewers your site may have accumulated in the first place.

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Comment by babyblue
2008-02-11 07:51:36

Nice tactics..hehe!^_^

 
Comment by Terry
2008-02-12 14:36:07

Had the same problem while running too many blogs at once. There was always one that was neglected.

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Comment by noni gurl
2008-02-13 12:23:17

Hey, this happens to people all the time. I guess what really matters in life is how you bounce back from the falls (or so I’ve heard). But yes, I will agree…technology is a compelling distraction for anyone. I get lost in texting or surfing the web all the time and neglect the errands I really have to get done that day, OOPS! ;)

 
Comment by Stomach Bloating
2008-02-13 18:19:15

This happens a lot and it sucks. Good to see you back though.

 
2008-02-13 18:21:42

You are forgiven

 
2008-02-14 11:14:45

I can totally relate to that, been there and going back to a regular posting schedule is the hardest thing. Keep it up!

 
Comment by Canned Fitness
2008-02-14 22:21:13

lol, i remember i used to do personal blogs about my life waaaaaaay back when. . . . man, i don’t even remember those passwords to gain access if i DID want to apologize profusely!

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Comment by Telugu News
2008-02-15 08:31:39

Its a routine thing, time to get over it and move on :)
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Comment by Matthew Peters
2008-02-18 17:40:33

Dude, at least your being transparent about the absence. That seems to be the key to staying alive on the net.

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Comment by Horoscope Lover
2008-02-20 15:58:09

If you think you have it bad look at me. I have twelve blogs I have to keep updated.

 
Comment by Mario
2008-02-21 21:00:50

Whoa, that sound like a sweet phone. How much was it?

 
2008-02-23 13:50:20

I love the Wordpress feature which lets you queue up posts that can appear at the specified date and time. Let’s me do a bunch when I have time and they come out when I want them to. That’s one way that I get around not getting the blog updated regularly.

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Comment by Tamas
2008-02-25 04:05:22

Your blog has a good readership I guess,then why do you want to neglect it.By the way you write awesome and the excuse is as if a genuine one ;-)

 
Comment by Marco Petri
2008-02-25 08:19:45

All good… blogging’s hard to maintain, kind of like flossing.

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Comment by SEO Consultant
2008-02-25 18:31:53

I have a few blogs/sites that fall into this category. Damn you’re making me fell bad. Off to do some posts.

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Comment by SEO Consultant
2008-02-25 18:32:28

Wow, just noticed that Comment Luv plugin, really nice

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Comment by jerry
2008-02-27 08:39:31

nice post. very funny

 
Comment by 360 Degrees
2008-02-27 17:27:46

yah-those blogs can eat up so much time. . . .of course, so can phones-or t.v. for that matter. Help! I’m being swallowed by communications devices! Thanks for the humorous post.

 
Comment by John
2008-02-28 16:59:55

You have no idea how many times I’ve forgotten I have a website.

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Comment by O'rene Ashley
2008-02-28 21:45:50

You said: “I can do just about anything with it.” So why didn’t you use it to write your blog?

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Comment by Home Security Guru
2008-02-29 10:03:13

I find myself neglecting certain blogs too at times. It’s so darn easy to get distracted–especially with all the technological innovations that seem to happen daily.

You’re reading the whole bible on your phone? That must be a pretty small screen. I’m impressed.

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Comment by InjuryProne
2008-02-29 13:45:01

We all know about how hard good habits–and blogs–are to keep up, but why is it I have to exert no effort to pick up a bad-for-me habit?

 
Comment by Pet-a-holic
2008-02-29 14:42:12

Geez, I know what you mean. I got a Nokia N95 a few weeks ago and Have been attached (literally!) to it ever since…

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Comment by Brad Hart
2008-03-03 17:29:50

perfectly fine to be neglectful when you don’t have a nofollow engaged

 
2008-03-04 06:06:00

It boils down to commitment. People fail in their blogs because they are not committed to developing and maintaining it. This is where we could separate the boys from the men.

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Comment by storage alexandria
2008-03-06 08:35:33

I agree it boils down to time you want to invest in your blog…I know for me writing is work and I have to dedicate 20 minutes a day to an hour of sold writing.

But I chose a career on the Internet so I could make money with little or no effort and maintenance.

 
Comment by storage alexandria
2008-03-06 08:36:46

I agree it boils down to time you want to invest in your blog…I know for me writing is work and I have to dedicate 20 minutes a day to an hour of sold writing.

But I chose a career of Affiliate Marketing and SEO, PPC Bid Management and Affiliate Marketing the Internet so I could make money with little or no effort and maintenance.

 
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